“I love you Joe, no I really love you,” “I love you too Samantha.” “Joe?” “Yes Samantha.” “Lets’ apply to the same College so we can be together.” Joe hesitates, and then in a sudden but reluctant outburst in fear of a long stare from Samantha, Joe says “ok.”

BIG FUCKING MISTAKE Samantha and Joe. I let you know when Samantha and Joe where in college together their relationship frizzled. But what do you expect when Samantha was caught French kissing a guy that was not Joe and in sweet classical revenge Joe slept with Samantha’s roommate.

College is in most times not a place for love relationships but experiments. Don’t get me wrong there have been long lasting relationships that have developed from college and even gone all the way to the aisle. But relationships from high school to attend the same college, not really. The concept seems exciting at first but in the long run nothing but regrets and misery. We must not forget that college is a venue for independence and freedom. My female readers might be exclaiming that men are dogs and when men see other women they can’t control themselves. This is true, to some degree. But in most part, yeah you’re right were dogs. However they are good men like Joe for instance who, though reluctantly, agreed to give fidelity a go. How hard could it be? Apparently it was for Samantha. But in deeper truth Joe was really looking for an excuse to hang out with some one else. But who is to really blame for this breakup? Many guys would say Samantha, many girls would say Joe cause he any way really wanted to sleep with someone else. The truth of the matter is that both are to blame and as well as those fantastic ridiculous romantic stories formulated by TV and romance novels.

Does seeing other people while still being boyfriend and girlfriend work? Uhmmmm lets think about that for a minute. No! Whoever came up with that solution must have been one horny individual. Does breaking up help? Well for one thing it ends every thing and doesn’t solve the issue, of course that is if you’re not in a relationship like OJ Simpson; believe me that could have solved a lot of problems. The fact of the matter is that I don’t know but as any common sensed person will tell you, is that prevention is better than a cure. Do not go to the same college with your high school sweethearts.

A twist of fate though, after Samantha and Joe read this article they started seeing each other again after their graduations in their different respective colleges. So what am I saying exactly? Perhaps Samantha and Joe needed time off from each other, perhaps their now different personalities still complimented each other or perhaps they did not listen to anyone but themselves. So I leave my readers with this I am not a professional and they are no such things as professionals in relationships. Which human can say with us complex creatures what we really feel only we can say that. So follow your heart follow your instinct. I for one can say with research and experience that pre-college relationships end up in the dumps. To my observant readers though, the argument still remains that Samantha and Joe did not ultimately stay in the same college together.

Does love Really Exist in College? Who is to say or judge. We are a complex creature prone to act erratically when angered, nervous, anxious or jealous.